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Some people choose to pretend that they are happy when they're not. They thought, when they forced themselves to be happy then, they will be happy eventually and become normal again. They choose to hide their sadness.
Some people choose the other. They choose to show their sadness. Or sometimes been seen as tantrums. Because, "maybe all of us wants to cry but don't want to be sad, so turn out to become angry" (IU, unlucky).
Because by throwing a tantrum seems help to throwing out the sadness too. Then, they will become normal again.
Which one is a right way?
There is nothing wrong in both ways, I presume.
I've done both.
As long as we are not hurting ourselves and other people surrounding us.
But, human make mistakes. Unintentionally, we do hurts someone. And it hurts us too.
At this time, we just hope. We just hope people will understand us that, we're not okay. But truthfully, how they can understand when they do not know? How they can know when we do not tell them? This is the hardest part.
Because we just want people to understand without asking, without the need to tell them. And we cannot assume people to understand us, the same way as we did to them.
Maybe what we truly need is a comfort. We thought we will easily earn it through people, our closest one. But, they will not always available-readily-accept the miserable in us. They can't be blamed. At the end, we only have ourselves. Our prayers and hopes. At the end, only we know how to make ourselves okay again. We just need to give time to ourselves. To become normal again.
Some people choose the other. They choose to show their sadness. Or sometimes been seen as tantrums. Because, "maybe all of us wants to cry but don't want to be sad, so turn out to become angry" (IU, unlucky).
Because by throwing a tantrum seems help to throwing out the sadness too. Then, they will become normal again.
Which one is a right way?
There is nothing wrong in both ways, I presume.
I've done both.
As long as we are not hurting ourselves and other people surrounding us.
But, human make mistakes. Unintentionally, we do hurts someone. And it hurts us too.
At this time, we just hope. We just hope people will understand us that, we're not okay. But truthfully, how they can understand when they do not know? How they can know when we do not tell them? This is the hardest part.
Because we just want people to understand without asking, without the need to tell them. And we cannot assume people to understand us, the same way as we did to them.
Maybe what we truly need is a comfort. We thought we will easily earn it through people, our closest one. But, they will not always available-readily-accept the miserable in us. They can't be blamed. At the end, we only have ourselves. Our prayers and hopes. At the end, only we know how to make ourselves okay again. We just need to give time to ourselves. To become normal again.
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